Shame and potential shame are ubiquitous and shame is a toxic affect. We do not like to experience it in our self or in others. It has been ignored in most psychoanalytic literature - even though the process of seeking help for emotional problems is pervaded with shame. Shame begets shame, leading to catastrophic shame spirals. Precursors of shame are found in very young infants. The psychoanalyst who contributed most to an understanding of shame was Heinz Kohut. The first part of the seminar maps the theoretical treatment of shame, and its commonness in our society.

Shame is a narcissistic affect, relating to injuries to the sense of self, and it is a core feature of false-self structures. Some forms of false self development involve a pervasive 'psychic murder' - the killing-off of the authentic self. We shall consider this process and how, during therapy, the tentative emergence of authentic aspects of the self are associated with great shame and anxiety.

We shall consider cases where experience of shame, and the fear of shame, is the mental pain leading a person to seek psychotherapeutic help - but the dread of re-experiencing destructive shame inhibits easy disclosure of the areas of deepest vulnerability. Too often, psychoanalytic styles of work may exacerbate shame, entrenching the person in a false-self compliance. It is important to foster ways of relating to the client that minimise unnecessary shame and we shall consider how to do this.

Phil Mollon, PhD is a psychoanalyst and member of the British Psychoanalytical Society. He also trained in psychotherapy at the Tavistock Clinic, and his original profession is clinical psychology. His PhD was a study of shame and disturbances in the sense of self. He has since written extensively on shame, trauma, and the psychology of the self. Amongst his ten books are included The Fragile Self [Whurr 1993], Releasing the Self: the Healing Legacy of Heinz Kohut [Whurr 2001], and Shame and Jealousy [Karnac 2002]. Dr Mollon has worked in the British National Health Service for over 30 years.

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